In this episode of Reticence and Reverie, hosts Joel and Carrie explore the influence of kindness — why it matters more than ever in a divided world, and how to actively cultivate it in daily life. Drawing from personal experiences, scientific research, and wisdom from figures like Mr. Rogers and Rumi, they examine how kindness ripples outward to strengthen communities and inward to improve our own well-being. The conversation also tackles harder questions around self-kindness, maintaining kindness when it isn’t returned, and whether it’s ever better to be right than to be kind.
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In this episode of Reticence and Reverie, Joel and Carrie tackle vulnerability — defining it as the conscious choice to be open and honest despite uncertain risks, and making the case that it’s one of the most courageous things a person can do. Drawing on personal stories of childhood bullying, difficult relationships, and moments of misplaced trust, they explore why so many people shut down after being hurt and why practicing vulnerability is still worth it.
In episode this episode of Reticence and Reverie, hosts Carrie and Joel explore the “rise and grind” mindset of hustle culture — examining its appeal, its psychological pitfalls, and the hidden costs it can take on your health, identity, and relationships. Drawing on personal stories and Carrie’s coaching experience, they make the case for balanced ambition: knowing how to pursue your goals while still protecting the areas of your life that truly feed you. Whether you’re caught in the hustle or just hustle-curious, this episode offers an honest, grounded conversation about what it really means to be successful — and when enough is finally enough.
Carrie and Joel explore what seeking purpose means to them, how other cultures perceive purpose and approach the myths surrounding it. They also go over some helpful tools and exercises that have helped mine the purpose from within. Join another vulnerable conversation with them in sharing their purpose…this podcast!
Joel and Carrie discuss their personal stories of introversion in this podcast. They speak of the struggles and super powers introverts have in the world today. They also answer questions around this and give pointers for fellow introverts and those that love them.
Joel and Carrie discuss the power of escaping the comfort zone and learning something new. Regardless if you are wanting to change vocations, travel or learn a new hobby, they walk through helpful vs hurtful mindsets and the importance of trying new things.
Joel and Carrie get vulnerable on loneliness. They cover statistics, dangers and how to combat loneliness through finding community.